Father and Son

My father woke me up one time in the wee hours of the night. It was still dark outside, yet grey lights peeked into our home. I didn't know what was going on until he told me that I'm going with him. Going where? He want me to come with him and travel to Toledo and Balamban. I didn't know how far those places were. I've heard of them before but I didn't know if my body wanted to ride a bus, let alone stand up. I didn't even know why he had to do this when he had a job. Did he resigned or was he kicked out of the company. I was too young to understand. All I want was a good night sleep.

And here I was at this bus, the smell of the diesel and smoke at 4 o'clock in the morning was excruciating. Couldn't he just do this on his own? Why does he have to wake me up? Can't he just do it by himself? Besides, he's supposed the breadwinner of the family. Questions raced through my mind as I fought to go back to sleep while sitting at my seat.

Mind you, it was a 3-hour long trip. My butt sored from the bumps and turns of the bus. It was a Sunday morning, and I should be asleep by now and should be playing with the kids in my neighborhood. And now, all that is gone because my father thought it was a good idea to bring his eldest son to a trip.

He doesn't smile a lot. And when he does, it was with his friends. But not to us. He was always grudging and angry, ready to throw us out of the window if we did something wrong. One time he threw at the corner home because I punched him in the face after he tickled me so hard. Did I really punch him? I couldn't remember. But then again, I was too young.

After twenty years I realized what he was trying to do. I am the eldest of eight siblings and he wanted me to take charge of the things he couldn't do alone. At first I thought, "It sucks to be the eldest." But I have a responsibility to do. A responsibility, a crown I must take head on, no matter how difficult it is.

He was trying to show me how hard life is, the reality of being a father. I didn't realize it then because we were well-off. Everything were provided to us - clothing, education, food; all the basic necessities a child could have. But not the love. He couldn't show it to us because he himself had some battles to fight.

I couldn't forget what he told me that day, "One day you'll travel on your own and have your own family. But remember this, your destiny is yours and yours alone. Never let anyone take it from you."

The day a mudskipper taught me a lesson

Are you familiar with the mudskippers? They are the amphibious fishes that leave water for extended periods of time. (Please go visit wikipedia to know more about Mudskippers).


While I watching this show on the television, I discovered something about them. Using their fins and tail, they scamper for food in the mud and along shoreline just to survive. But what struck me most is how they build their “nest.” Every now and then they emerge from their hole/home spitting pebbles the size of its head.


And I thought that was all of it until I learned what’s inside their nest. It’s a U-shaped tunnel where it keeps its eggs at the other end. And for the eggs to survive, they need a constant supply of oxygen. So every now and then, the mudskipper emerges, gulps a mouthful of air, goes into the other end and breathes the oxygen to the eggs that lined up the walls of the tunnel. The mudskipper does this process until the eggs are hatched (read: for almost a week).

And then I was startled. If these little creatures, which are smaller than your thumb, can take up the challenges of life, then there’s no reason that you, as a person capable of critical thinking, should give up to the challenges of everyday life. Without these difficulties and challenges, you won’t evolve into a better person.

Beauty of Masbate City

Gateway of Masbate

For most of us we don't want to spend more time travelling , and instead be on our destination the soonest possible way. There had been instances that we often blame others, or even ourselves, why we missed a trip or a flight. We couldn't afford to lose time and stand for the next couple of hours waiting for the next trip.

I had the same experience when I was on my way back to Cebu from Legaspi City, Albay last May. Since I already missed the Legaspi-Cebu flight, my next viable option is the Roro (roll on-roll off) trip in which I have to take a ferry trip to Masbate City and then another sea trip for Cebu. The trip went fine; until I, along with other would-be passengers, were informed that the boat bound for Cebu was already fully-booked. Plan C was to take a bus trip from Masbate to Cebu.

Mayon Volcano, the beautiful lady of Philippines

I had my first encounter with the world-renowned Mayon Volcano eight years ago while I was on a trip to visit a friend (now my wife) in Legazpi City, Albay. I think it had been almost a 12-hour busy trip from Pasay City to my destination. I was almost on the brink of wanting to go back and never do that trip again. If I only knew that there's a one-hour flight from Manila to Legazpi City I would have taken that option.

I was asleep most of the time during the trip and was glad that I was already in Naga when I woke up. I took another nap (bus trips can be so tiring, I know) and look out at the window. I couldn't help but be mesmerized by the beauty and magnifience of what I saw: standing more than 8,000 ft tall with a perfectly-formed cone volcano. For the rest of the trip I found myself awake and staring at the volcano, to the point that the passenger sitting beside me asked if it was my first time to be in Albay. What he didn't know is that it is the first time that I saw a volcano.

A great place to spend your summer in Cebu

Brace yourselves! Summer is coming.

Unlike George R.R. Martin’s Winterfell, Cebu is completely different. The fine climate with the right heat from basking sun, Cebu offers beautiful places and vacation spots to spend this summer season.

One of the premier, if not the foremost, beaches found in Cebu is Portofino Beach Resort. It is located in Mactan Island, Lapu-lapu City, and 30 minutes away from the Cebu Internation Airport. The resort offers white sand beaches with crystal clear water and water sport activities such as diving,

The Filipino Smile: A new way of saying Thank you

Ask anyone who have visited the Philippines on what they liked most on their travel, and their top of the mind answers would be the  hospitality and the heart warming smile of every Filipino, young and old. These are one of the qualities that keep visitors coming back to the beautiful 7,107 islands (7,106 during high tide). While many returned to their homelands, some choose to stay for good – mostly likely enticed by the mysterious beauty of the land and the people.


Like any nation, the Philippines face problems every day. Even the worst ones - floods, calamities, poverty, insurgencies.